For the women moving toward empowered stillness — whether they're leading your rooms or holding the space within them — and the organizations that want the longevity that comes with it.
BEGIN A CONVERSATIONI am the daughter of Roy Sickner.
For more than thirty years I have cultivated my practice within the Ritz-Carlton tradition of extraordinary wellness, integrating massage therapy, fitness, yoga, Pilates, breathwork, and sound healing — embodying trauma-informed awareness.
I am the author of The Awakening Alpha Female. The Art of Acquiescing is the practice I share.
And I am here now to bring this work into the rooms where it is most needed: the rooms where your most accomplished women are quietly going under.
Three decades ago, early in my career, I spent three years inside PepsiCo. I was not yet sharing this work. I was simply a young woman in corporate America paying attention.
I watched women in their thirties carry full-time leadership roles by day, complete their MBAs by night, marry, have babies, and somehow still arrive every morning composed, capable, and almost effortless. I watched what that effortlessness was actually costing them.
And I watched the only socially permissible exits be medical. The elective surgery that took a month. The procedure that bought a quiet leave. A whole vocabulary of bodily reasons for what was actually a soul-level need to step back from the engine.
At the same time, in my own life, I was in college studying stress management — learning the practices that I have continued to refine and to share for the thirty years since. The witness and the practitioner were forming in me at the same time.
I am returning now to the room I first saw the problem in. With everything I have learned about what the body knows, and how to bring her home.
The same instruction we learned as children at the crosswalk — returned to the body, in the moment her nervous system is sounding an alarm she has been trained to override.
When the body sends a signal. Not when it is convenient. Not after one more email. The practice is the willingness to pause.
Read what the body is showing you. Dry mouth. Neck tension. The flutter of the heart. Eye strain from the screen, the lights, the day. The signals are precise; we have only learned to ignore them.
Answer what the body is asking for. Close the laptop. Drink the water. Walk outside for the three minutes it takes. The body is rarely subtle once we are willing to hear her.
A method any woman in any office can use in under five minutes — and the spine of every keynote, immersion, and cohort program I bring into your organization.
"Fight-flight became ambition. Hypervigilance became excellence. Self-abandonment became leadership."
I come to your setting — your offsite, your summit, your offices, your women's leadership convening. The room is yours; the work is mine to bring.
A talk for your women's leadership summit, your annual gathering, your executive offsite. Stop. Look. Listen. delivered as a single arc, with room for the conversation it always opens.
For audiences from forty to four hundred. The talk most useful to senior women, and to the leaders responsible for them.
A half-day or full-day at your offsite — keynote and conversation, deepened with embodied practice. Breath, soundbath, the somatic work of returning a body to herself inside the day she would otherwise have spent in another spreadsheet.
For groups of six to thirty. The right shape for executive women's gatherings and leadership team retreats.
A multi-week program for your senior women — the high-potential pipeline, the rising partners, the executives you most want to retain. Designed around Stop. Look. Listen. as a working method she takes home into her body and her calendar.
Delivered into your existing infrastructure: a mix of onsite sessions I lead, embodied practice between, and a private container for the women in the program.
A few of the essays the women in your organization are quietly reading on their own time.
"The secret to her true power lies not in constant action or the ability to persevere in stress, but in her capacity to align her energy, mind, and body with awareness and intentionality."
On the parasympathetic state as the actual ground of sustained executive performance — and the cost of mistaking chronic sympathetic activation for strength. Published on Substack as Beauty and The Beast.
READ IN FULL"The old paradigm admired the woman who could do everything without breaking. The new paradigm honors the woman who no longer abandons herself in order to succeed."
On the unspoken cost women in hospitality and corporate leadership have been paying for the privilege of being seen as effortless. A reframe of what loyalty actually rests on.
READ IN FULL"These questions return us to neutrality — where power becomes presence, and service flows from humility and Grace."
A teaching from Elder Duncan Grady, carried in reverence to Siksika (Blackfoot) traditions — three pairs that quietly hold the architecture of human experience, and a compass for the leader stepping into the room.
READ IN FULLFor keynote inquiries, executive offsites, and cohort programs, write directly. I read every note that arrives and reply personally.
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